I haven’t said anything to her about how I feel. I agree about the other guy thing, though. Her upbringing was basically that sex is nothing special, so she’s sort of taken that into adulthood. I, on the other hand, had a different upbringing and have come to believe intimacy is just that, it is something that you don’t share with anyone, it is meant to a special thing. I’m also traditional in my ways of relationships. I don’t jump in the sack the first time I meet a woman. I want to know who they are, if we click, that sort of thing.

She makes it a point to give me a hug when we see each other and when we part ways. She calls a lot, we have long discussions that last hours on end about different topics. She seems like she’s interested in me.

I guess I just don’t quite understand her cues? or maybe she’s sending them and i’m not picking them up?