Hi AcceptingMe,

Is it possible to take a break from the situation this year ~ and to do something else totally unrelated in which you succeed to build up your confidence?

Can you find a similar/parallel type of situation where you can succeed and then come back next year to this situation and rock it?

Can you find the same exact situation away from the gossipy people?

Can you take classes about your situation?

Make a joke in front of the group, “I am such a dunderhead, I always mess up in this situation, watch me do it again!!” Kind of a pre-emptive gossiping strike?

Hope any of the above helps!

Inky