Hello, I have been married to my husband for four years, but we have been together for nine. We have a 7-month old daughter and two pets. He is in the military and I’m a teacher. I put off getting a teaching job because he was applying for a program within the military and if he got into the program, we would have to move. We did that for three years. This year when he didn’t get it, he told me to go for a teaching job and that he supports me in doing that. I applied for a job and got it. Then, a while later, I told me that he applied for a completely different program that would take him across the country for nine months. When I brought up my teaching job, he said he hadn’t even considered it and that I could just break the contract. I am not going to do that, so I will have our daughter and the animals here with me and he is going to go do the program. He said that it will make him happy, but it is at my expense. I feel like I constantly have been sacrificing for him and his career and this felt like betrayal. He didn’t tell me or talk to me about this job and this is after he talked about it being okay for me to go back into teaching. His being happy feels contingent about chasing the next best thing, not our family. Am I right in being angry? How can I get past this? I talked to him and he just says sorry and that it won’t happen again, but that just doesn’t feel like enough.