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  • January 1, 2021 at 3:05 pm #372035
    Anonymous
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    Dear Notebookb6:

    Welcome back, and Happy New Year to you!

    You shared that you’ve been having a long-distance relationship with a man for about a year. The two of you had midnight talks about his lucid dreams, and during those talks you felt very connected to him. At one point he asked you..

    1. I didn’t understand what he asked you. Can you restate clearly what he asked you?

    2. What kinds of lucid dreams, are you referring to- sexual lucid dreams?

    anita

    January 1, 2021 at 3:14 pm #372038
    Notebookb6
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    Dear Anita, happy new year to you too!

    To reply with your questions:

    1. We were discussing about whether if two person able to share the same dream, and he asked me if I have had someone appear in my dream before.

    2. No there is nothing sexual between us at all. The lucid dream he shared was about his adventure , things like exploring a haunted house or encountering forest spirit. 

    January 1, 2021 at 3:29 pm #372041
    Anonymous
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    Dear Notebookb6:

    You asked: “how can I confront him regarding his recent change without appearing needy?”- send him a short and casual message saying that you miss your midnight talks and his lucid dreams, and ask him if he didn’t dream lately.

    “I’m also thinking if I should let him know my feelings towards him, but afraid that this would scare him off. What should I do?”- in what I suggested above, you would be telling  him that you miss the midnight talks you had- that’s telling him a bit about your feelings. It’s a beginning.

    anita

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