Hi,
Healthy love is when two people choose to be together, emphasis on the word choose. They know that they can each live healthy independently, but choose to be together as it helps them and their partner grow. From your blog it sounds like you need to develop your own love for yourself. I was in a 13 year relationship and I thought I gave everything I had into it, I too suffered depression at a stage and they were tough times. In the end he walked out of my life because he could not make me happy. I was relying on him to make me happy, to fill me with love, respect and security. Yet you should never give your power to another, one it’s a strain on the other person and two you will always be disappointed. Take time out ALONE completely and learn to love and respect yourself, until you don’t do that you won’t be happy with another person truly. It’s a tough tough journey, I’m not going to lie to you and say it’s all rosy and by the end of it you will be shiny new. You will still have traits that you like and don’t like about yourself, but you will learn to love all aspects of yourself, so that you accept you just the way you are. Nothing is perfect, in the imperfect our beauty lies.

I pray you find a path that leads you to bliss and happiness. In the greatest pain a new joy is being born.

Love, peace and blessings Aysha xx

This blog doesn’t help my situation at all. But good post. A person has to be willing to give space in order to get it in return. No one is following you….some people happened to be purposefully everywhere! Under a rock and in a cave…they’re everywhere. Like lint! Confusion comes from lack of understanding, lack of communication and often being misunderstood. However; I believe this to be intentional. I felt this way about a “friend.” But then again, a true friend wouldn’t want you to be confused about anything. A friend wouldn’t hurt you or allow you to stay in a situation that is mentally unhealthy. Nor would they purposefully put you in it. A “true” friend is crystal clear as to where they stand in your life. Another thing, since when does having an opinion equate to drama. Now I truly understand why people are depressed. Being stuck in an endless maze of confusion, riddles just for entertainment will make anyone depressed. A therapist isn’t warranted in every situation. My situation is actually quite simple. CUT THE D*MN CAMERAS OFF! Anyway, sunny days are ahead. Soon it will all be over and my “friend” will not have to worry about being followed; disrespected or whatever else he thinks I’m intentionally doing. Live your life! See we all can be happy! Namaste!!!!!!!

Peace!