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    Thomas
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    Dad is seeing another woman now. He has been divorced with my mom three years ago. This is the third time he introduced someone new to me again. He said he met this woman in a bar a week ago. This Peru lady is not that beautiful but so kind to me. I’m not sure if she’s just sugarcoating or pretending to be nice to me. Tell me, how do I get rid of her? I don’t like her to be my stepmom. And I don’t want her to be my dad’s new girlfriend! Please help!

    #217693
    anita
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    Dear Thomas:

    Are you living with your father and how old are you?

    Your father just met this woman a week ago. Usually people don’t get married so quickly after meeting. Also, you don’t know that she is sugarcoating anything, pretending to be nice to you, do you?

    I wonder if you communicated this to your father, your fear that he will marry her and that she will turn against you if he does. I hope you respond and I hope you feel better soon.

    anita

    #217717
    Inky
    Participant

    Hi Thomas,

    Tell your dad, “Every year you introduce me to someone new. I don’t want to meet these women and become attached only to not see them again. Can you do me a favor and not introduce me to anyone unless and until you’re engaged? Then I can fully embrace the new person in our lives.”

    This will free him up not to mix romance with family life and force him to be more serious (and selective!) about who he brings home.

    Been There,

    Inky

    #218073
    maria
    Participant

    You should be frank and disclose this issue with your father. Tell him that you don’t want that girl as  a step mother of yourself.

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