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Big blue.
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October 12, 2014 at 7:59 pm #66229
Danny
ParticipantI’m going through a similar situation in my life. I would MSG her to tell her to have a beautiful day and that I love her or , “how is your day going ?”. it seems to me that when she does respond it would be 5-6 hours later in the day with some type of excuse . I know it hurts knowing she does not want to deal with you or reply in a timely matter. I’m still young compared to you but I’ve been in relationships my whole life since my hormones kicked in. lol not implying that your old either, I just don’t have kids yet. Here is my two cents towards your question. just don’t think about it too much all your doing is killing yourself on the inside. don’t beat yourself up about too much and try to find inner peace with yourself. it really helped me to not think or have that urge to text or call her.There’re plenty of more beautiful mermaids in the vast oceans. Throw out a line with bait and reel em in 🙂 try to find a vice or create new habits per-say exercising or taking your kids out for a fun day with dad 🙂 wish the best of luck to you Steve. If its meant to be than its meant to be.
October 13, 2014 at 6:14 am #66234Lucinda
ParticipantI was just talking with a friend about this type of thing the other day… When I’m not sure what’s going on, but want something different than what I fear, the best thing I’ve found to do is be direct, honest and authentic. Then, no matter what the outcome, I’ve done my part, I’ve cleaned up my side of the street, and I’m right with me.
So for example, you could call (I think voice is better, even if you get voice mail) and say something that’s true, honest and authentic like, “I miss hearing from you, I’ve really enjoyed our time together and would like more but I want to respect where you are in your life. Give me a call, or text, to let me know how you’re doing either way please.”
Then if she calls great, if not you will know but you will also know that you’ve been true to yourself and stated what’s in your heart.
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October 14, 2014 at 10:31 am #66267Anonymous
InactiveWell, it’s done. She doesn’t have time for a relationship. At least that is what she says. I’m disappointed. I don’t know how some people don’t start to care about a person, after they spend time getting to know them, but I am beginning to wish I was one of them. I had my heart crushed when my piece of trash ex cheated on me and left me. Now I feel small heartaches when I try to get to know new women. It’s just frustrating already.
October 15, 2014 at 6:19 pm #66325Big blue
ParticipantHi Steve,
Sorry it did not work out – frustrating!
How long since your marraige split?
Big blue
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