Ainka,

My dear, it’s not ok to be in love with any person who is abusive.

You deserve much better than this abuser, manipulator.
Please ignore people and comments who try to put you down,
by commenting on your single status.
Always remember, there will always be people who try to put us down,
we need to show them our strength and stop them. ‘Survival of the fittest’.
Here – strongest.
Please keep the past in the past, where it belongs.
There are many many many beautiful things in life.
Don’t be stuck at the guy who didn’t respect you.
Move on for the betterment of you and your loved ones (family and friends).
You still got a lot to live ahead.
Try appreciating all the small things around you. If you get a chance,
do read Robin Sharma’s Greatness Guide/Daily Inspiration Guide.
Nobody is completely happy in life, it’s how we take life as it comes.
Get up and get going. Again, don’t be stuck.

As far as being single goes, I feel I’m lucky to be single for I’m not
with a wrong person. And can take care of my own happiness. All I mean
is….see the brighter side always.

About being able to be a biological mother; technology has advanced a lot
to cater to your needs, but the question is ‘if and when you want it’.

I have seen people who consider getting married as the biggest achievement
of life, and have complicated a simple and an already easy going life for nothing.

Once I read a quote, ‘Figure out what you want and know how to ask for it’.

Peace, love and light to you Ainka.

Get the person and his thoughts out of your head. It’s only corrupting your mind.

Love yourself before jumping to be able to love any other person. You come first.

God Bless you my dear!