I was involved in a car wreck that didn’t cripple me, but has destroyed my financial situation along with my mother’s. In the beginning, I was very truthful with her about my inabilities to contribute, as Im a college student making a little over minimum wage. She was becoming very stressed out, losing sleep and barely was able to pay our rent. I got tired of seeing her like this and basically wrote not so good checks to literally cover pur living expenses, because we barely had food in the house, could NOT pay rent, and we incurred the debt of paying two months worth of insurance on a rental car for ONE month, on top of other incidentals. I understand this is NOT a good thing to do finance wise, but we exercised every other oprion before me doing this. My mom is unaware and I did this to make sure we could keep our head above water. I am receiving refunds from school and the money I receive will go to the bank Im heavily overdrafted with. However, the bank is now closing my mothers account, which is the account we have been using. I have to break this news to her, and I have to put my words together. I feel I was left to do a very bad thing to put us in a better position, but now theres the bank closure issue. I understand that I gave myself the excuse yo not be truthful with my mother, in hopes of not worrying her about our finances, but now I have communicate the problem to her.