I sent a message to my ex boyfriends soon-to-be bride wishing her and my ex the best for their wedding this weekend on private message on facebook. We are not friends but she knows about me but not sure how much. I have commented on a couple of posts that she tagged my ex boyfriend on so we have had some pleasant interaction. I explained that I was writing brecause I wanted to congratulate her privately. I wished them both well on Saturday and I said that although I did not know her personally, she must be a great girl to have captured his heart. The message I got back seemed so weird to me. Maybe a little too rehearsed? It took until the next day to get back to me after she read my message and she did not even address me by name – just “hi there.” I thought I was doing the right thing, but now I think maybe it was not such a good idea. She seems to say all the “right” things, but it just sounds odd to me. She also calls me a childhood friend – when we were much more than that. I’m confused and maybe just a highly bit sensitive? Her message follows:

“Hi there – thank you so much for your kind thoughts and best wishes for “Ex” and I on our upcoming wedding. We are so excited to begin this part of our lives together. “Ex” is an amazing man and I feel blessed to have him and the kids in my life. “Ex” and I will be in Whittier in December – perhaps we can arrange a meet up. I would love to have an opportunity to meet you. “Ex” speaks very highly of you . It would be great to meet some of his lifelong friends. Thank you again for reaching out and have a great day….”

Can anyone pick up anything useful from her response? Thanks in advance.