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  • December 28, 2013 at 11:37 am #47762
    Aiman
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    Hi. Whenever I emotionally bond with people I get this weird feeling that we have gotten to close.I sometimes, regretfully, get emotionally dependent, in extreme conditions I myself get too close emotionally and after all that, when that person shows compassion towards me I feel awkward, but I don’t let the other person know ’cause in a few hours or days I recover from that feeling. Even if that person would be my closest friend, as close as a childhood friend, I feel weird when they show compassion or true friendly love for me,I usually return their emotions because I know I will recover from that feeling.

    December 28, 2013 at 5:11 pm #47768
    Boy Under The Bridge
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    I understand this. But I’m a guy and for me its when females are getting close emotionally.

    I was in a relationship for a while which I was very emotionally invested in, and after that ended, I became very wary being being hurt again.

    When it comes to friends however, I have no problems investing emotionally as I know its harder for friendships to end.

    I think you need to evaluate, if your connection is too much or maybe you are a loving person. In that case, you are making things harder for yourself by trying to change how you naturally feel.

    I hope this helps

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