Hi lostsoul86,
I would put myself on dating sites and have my friends and family set me up on dates. I would also frequent where the type of person I’m looking for would be. (Example for me: Bookstores, yes. Bars, no. Church, yes. Clubs, no.)
Statistically you will not only find someone to love but you will also get married. Believe it!
There is a quote, “What you are seeking is also seeking you.” In your case the quote is true. There are plenty of women out there actively looking for a nice guy.
Find each other.
Enjoy the Quest!
Inky