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  • April 25, 2018 at 10:55 am #204097
    Yami
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    So I’ve never written on this kind of forum before, but I don’t have many friends so I’m a little lost and protective with the ones I do have. I have one friend I really enjoy when she is around to talk to, but she only responds to me at a certain time. Is that normal or weird or I don’t know. I know she’s busy often but she used to talk to me a lot at random, and now it’s severely restricted. Even if I message her I won’t see her until 7pm at night, though I know she’s talking to other people. I’ve told her I miss her but it doesn’t seem to help things.I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m sure you’ll say why not go make new friends, but I have social anxiety so it’s incredibly hard for me to do so. Not to mention it’s hard when you want something you can’t have.

    April 26, 2018 at 12:05 am #204171
    Airene
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    Hello Yami,

    It’s good that you posted here.  You want to change something difficult for you, and posting here is a first step.

    You said this friend used to talk to you a lot at random, and now it’s severely restricted.  How long have you been friends, and when did you notice that she started to respond only at certain times?  How often do you see her?  What kinds of things do you do together?

    Airene

     

    April 26, 2018 at 12:55 am #204179
    Regi
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    Since you don’t have that many friends I understand that you worry about it, I feel sorry for you.

    At this point it seems like she has other important matters in her life. Perhaps you can try to be part of those matters? What is she doing all the time? And what did you used to do?

    Altough, I’d try not to depend on this friendship, expectations can dissapoint you. Not that I am good at it :p but it’s worth trying.

     

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