Hello, so wrote a previous post about how I reconnected with an old classmate whom is currently taking the same education I am, we have basically gone on 5 incredible dates which were super fun.

We have had the conversation About continuing dating and getting to know each other more and see where it takes us.

Basically we have sometimes made bets about who would win in a game such as gocart, bowling or a card game and when he win he is basically jokingly saying he wants a bj as a “price”.. my problem is that normally I would never do things like that unless I was 100% sure the guy was Into me, we were bf and gf and also find that it was less of a problem for me with my previous bfs who were long distance. I find myself wanting to give him it, but I basically chicken out and get shy thinking About it worrying whether it’ll be too soon and if he will judge me afterwards.. so basically Looking for suggestions as how to overcome this as I worry I will push him away since he have asked a few times.  :/  not to mention we only kissed on the last date since both of us come from bad relationships with trust issues, cheating, manipulating etc so both of us are worried about getting hurt.