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February 14, 2017 at 11:41 am #127607 KristinaParticipant KristinaParticipantHappy V day all! For the first time ever, I feel like I have turned a new leaf, and it only took me 40 years to get there. Thanks to CoDa (Codepenedents Anonymous), I have learned SO much about myself and embraced that true happiness lies within. To that end, I have committed to loving MYSELF which involves treating myself how I want to be treated instead of waiting around for someone else to figure it out or focusing on what I don’t have. It has been incredibly rewarding. So, in the spirit of the day that we celebrate love, I have decided to have a “day in” so I don’t have to deal with the “V” day crowds. I bought steaks and shrimp on sale, and I am going to cook myself an AMAZING dinner complete with candlelight and wine. I have 1/2 dozen chocolate covered strawberries in the fridge that I intend on enjoying. I’m then going to put on some soft music, light a few more candles and enjoy a long bubble bath. I am then going to write in my journal about all of the things for which I am grateful and all of the wonderful things that make being “unattached” at this point in my life so wonderful. Anyone else CELEBRATING SELF LOVE today? February 14, 2017 at 6:50 pm #127651 AnonymousGuest AnonymousGuestDear Kristina: What a delightful way to spend Valentine Day: steak and shrimp, chocolate covered strawberries, soft music, candlelight, long bubble bath, and a grateful entry in your journal, how lovely! Don’t celebrate Valentine Day myself- but just lived vicariously through your celebration, thank you! anita February 15, 2017 at 8:25 am #127705 NiyataParticipant NiyataParticipantWowza!! While reading it honestly i felt like actually doing all those.. Although im on diet, those chocolate dipped strawberries.. Literally drooling here… It was a great valentine’s day eve reading this Ms. Kristine. Thanks for sharing it and reminding of so many stuff which i had been missing. (Chocolates mostly).. February 15, 2017 at 9:13 am #127723 RosemaryParticipant RosemaryParticipantThat’s beautiful Kristina! Don’t limit such a wonderful treat to yourself to just one day a year. Why not once a month? You deserve it 🙂 February 16, 2017 at 3:27 pm #127939 Brav3Participant Brav3ParticipantHey Kristina, Well done on Self Love. How will I love myself on V day. By not making a big deal about it. By reminding myself that being single is as good as being in relationship and it is just a delusion that having a partner will give us happiness. Ask people who are in relationship or married? If you have someone to celebrate your life with, GREAT ! If you have no one like me its GREAT to. Grass is always greener on the other side of fence. Brav3 
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