Oh, hotlines. Any of the resource links of any potential value for you?

Dear Adalie: From what I remember you sharing, the only reason you’re still in the relationship was financial.. Is it?

The English poet once said, “It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
Don’t know how true this saying is cause I know how much it hurts to lose love.
But, got to believe there is something better coming.

Adalie said, “Its my fault for meeting up with him and letting something happen.”
Did it provide you with any happiness? I understand you are taking responsibility. But, it takes two to tango?
Everybody wants to find happiness. Unfortunately happiness has to be in you first. Another person can’t provide it.

Adalie said, “Kinda stupid that im hurt by being unfriended.”
When is rejection ever not hurtful? It is only natural to feel this way.

Adalie said, “There was never a relationship there just one day and no communication. I didn’t matter enough”
You matter. Just not to him. It does hurt to be used and cast away.
Never forget that you do matter. Just got to find the right person.
It is tough to know when to let the heart go because one can be hurt so easily.

I hope you have better days ahead of you. Friends do help??
I know there is nothing I can say to get you out of this funk, hurting.

How are you feeling today, Adalie?

Dear Adalie:

You are very welcome. I hope that your marriage resolves somehow and that your confusion and hurt lessen and lessen. I am glad to read that “it will be that way forever”, so, there’s hope for something new and better. Please post anytime you need someone to talk to. I am here.

🤍 Anita