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November 19, 2018 at 2:13 pm #238527
EmmaParticipantHello, I’ve got a little story to tell you about a guy.
The story began about a year ago. I met a guy who I was really into, the problem was he was stuck in a toxic relationship. He showed interest in me before breaking up. I was a bit turned off because he was hitting on me while he had a girlfriend. After a while they broke up naturally. We kept in touch for a couple of months until he confessed his feelings to me. However at the time I was dating someone else for the next year, so I stopped talking to him because I thought it might upset my boyfriend.
As i know from common friends he was hurt by me dating another man but after a couple of months he moved on and found a new girlfriend. 5 months later I broke up with my boyfriend and I found myself more comfortable to talk to him when we were hanging out with mutual friends. He started texting me almost everyday and invited me over with his friends. I thought that he just like my company and didn’t want anything more because he wasn’t doing anything suspicious (other than that he never mentions his relationship in front of me)
It turns out that he didn’t know I’ve broke up.. when it happened to tell him he was surprised and stated that things are getting complicated now because he had feelings for me. However he didn’t stop texting and tries to find time to hang out with me..
I cannot say that i don’t like his attention (I was the first to like him anyway), but I dont want to be the third wheel.. it’s not fair for none of us.
What do you guys advise me to do?
November 19, 2018 at 3:13 pm #238537
MichelleParticipantYou could tell him you are interested in getting to know him better but other than that, you need to step back and do nothing.
If he is truly interested in you, he can end his current relationship and only then should you pursue something.
November 19, 2018 at 5:42 pm #238565
EmmaParticipantI dont know if he will break up for me or whatever.. Even when they break up, should I trust him that he is not going to do the same to me? I dont want the person who I’m dating to see other women he likes, even if it’s all platonic, as he does now with her current girlfriend.
November 20, 2018 at 8:55 am #238677
MarkParticipantEmma,
He was hitting on you while in he was in relationship. He texted you everyday and inviting you to be with him. Such behavior means he wants more than a platonic friendship. He is doing that now while he is in another relationship.
That behavior reveals the kind of person he is. How he treats others is how he will treat you.
Mark
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