Dear maggie mac:

Better balance that hope with the possibility, and it is a possibility, that it is over. You know the possibility exists, so better not ignore it. He is very rigid this way, in what he demanded of you in the relationship, to not distress you in the way he specified to you.

This long distance relationship has been difficult for  you for a long, long time. And he wouldn’t move close to you. So it continued to be difficult. Maybe he preferred it long distance but you didn’t. I think you tried to accommodate him best you could.

I don’t like it that he hasn’t contacted you all this time. It would have been decent of him to let you know where he stands instead of leaving you in this limbo. That in itself is unkind, not to mention, not loving.

anita

Dear Maggie mac:

I understand. You are welcome and hoping for the best for you, will be looking for your next post.

anita

Dear maggie mac:

It is hard to believe, that following such words he will just disappear from your life. It is possible that he is very, very busy and time has a different feel to it, for him, than it does to you, that is, it passes quickly for him and a week for him feels like two days. He was busy Saturday when the last conversation took place. From your own experience with him during times he was very busy, you can consider this possibility.

There are other possibilities. Again, your experience with him can shed some light on those. In the past when he stopped calling you following a similar conflict, what caused him to be in contact with you again, how did that happen. If you would like to answer, please do.

anita

Dear Maggie mac;

Thank you for updating me. It is kind of you to do so even though you didn’t feel like it. I appreciate it and feel sad for you, knowing how sad you must be. I hope to read from you again and I do so hope you feel better very soon.

anita