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  • November 26, 2017 at 8:41 pm #179517
    cranberry
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    I feel like many of posts are the same. But Im in college and i can get all the advice as I can. At the moment I am thinking of changing my major to recreational therapy. I think it will be a job that I will enjoy but I don’t think the pay is pretty low. And though money isnt everything, able to live comfortably is something important to me. I was thinking of maybe doing occupational therapy but i am not so sure. I wish I could just make art and help people all day 😛

    I also talk about my ex quite a lot but he is on my mind often. I try talking to other guys but I have no interest or one day my attraction to them just goes away. Why do you think that is? I do not want this trend to continue . I am very young and I don’t need to date anyone right now but it has been almost half a year and still find myself grieving my break up during random moments. A few months ago he said he honestly didn’t know if he thinks we could back together and that it was too soon to tell and that he wasn’t totally opposed to the idea. A part of me is wondering why I am not enough or how come he does not want me anymore. I guess rejection hurts but it hurts must of all when it is from someone you really love and care for. I haven’t spoken to him since but I think about him so often and I wish I did not. I do not know what to do about this situation.

    But on the bright side I feel like the break up was a wake up call of what I need to do in order to improve and I think it has made me a bit stronger and a little wiser too.

    Any advice or feedback will be helpful. Thanks so much for reading <3

     

     

    November 26, 2017 at 8:43 pm #179519
    cranberry
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    I meant to say that I think the pay for recreational therapy is low

    November 26, 2017 at 11:35 pm #179527
    cranberry
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    i am trying so hard to be positive but i am so hurt, why doesn’t he love me anymore? I just want to ask him why hes doing this. I feel so pathetic and down on myself. I feel so lost and stupid and i feel so bitter. i have this feeling that love is fake and i just wanna feel empowered and grow and make progress in life but this break up has effected me tremendously. i cry about it so often and i wish i had some sort of peace of mind.

     

    November 27, 2017 at 3:31 am #179531
    Anonymous
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    Dear  cranberry:

    Regarding recreational therapy vs occupational therapy- there are  many classes both majors have  in common, classes you have to  take whichever you choose as your major, I assume. Maybe you can take all those classes first, classes that will count for whatever you choose as your major later?

    As to “why I am not enough or how come he does not want me anymore”- you shared in previous threads that you were often mean to him, jealous for no real reasons, manipulative, making his life more difficult, this can be a reason.

    You wrote that  you “feel so lost and stupid”. About three  hours earlier you wrote about  that  break up that  “it has made (you) a bit stronger and a little wiser too”-

    Will you share about this little wisdom?

    anita

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