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I LEFT A JOB I LOVE ONLY TO BE MISERABLE WHATS WRONG WITH ME

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  • #75759
    Inky
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    Hi Amby,

    Well, I mean, who wouldn’t take the second job sight unseen?? The first place was taking advantage of your youth/inexperience with the healthcare bull crap which is huge. HUGE!!

    I would use this current job as a platform to find something better. The benefits really do matter. Like I’d be all over that gym membership LOL! And you don’t “need” health insurance ~ until you suddenly do. My neighbors almost went bankrupt without it. One intestinal problem = $15,000, thank you!

    What do the older people who have been there a while do? I bet they use their cell phones and check email. I bet they walk around the hallways/outside/have a “restroom” break. I doubt everyone’s a perfect cubicle slave.

    So don’t beat yourself up about the first job, and view this job as temporary. Make the best of it while finding something else.

    Inky

    #75763
    Jordan
    Participant

    I think you should talk with your employer and see exactly what is expected, and talk with other fellow workers to see what they do. I had an internship a few years back that seemed somewhat similar. I would work in a desk for 8hours per day, no scheduled coffee breaks, and expected to eat my lunch at my desk. What I did was understand what my role was and what I had to do. I found out that as long as I met deadlines I would have some flexibility. I would bring a book (I love reading) and would take breaks every so often to do some reading. If it was nice out I would go for a walk. Because I always delivered quality work on time no one really complained about me doing this.

    And guess what… Many other people did this. Even though there was no scheduled breaks, I found out that people would occasionaly go for walks and do stuff at work.

    The truth of the matter is that a shift is happening in the work place. Longer hours and less pay is starting to become the norm. I would suggest you try to find some balance with your current work. Maybe negotiate over a few things. Realistically, they shouldn’t care as long as you are productive. And you are right… you need breaks to be productive.

    #75766
    Amby
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    Thanks everyone its only been a few days that i have been there. Im trying to get a sense as to how others do things its hard to imagine no one taking small breaks at the office, the administrator had told me I couldn’t use my cell however most everyone herself included keeps it on their desk and I’ve seen them occasionally check it or text, another employee went out to the local cafe to get a drink so my hope is there is some wiggle room, I’m just to new at the moment, I would like to make this job work i think in the long term it could be good for me. At the same time i want to keep my sanity I’m thinking about bringing up my concerns to another employee and seeing how they cope with it, thank you both for being so understanding and answering my question for me and giving me some peace of mind, i was just so afraid of making a mistake…. Especially when i think about all the freedom at my previous job : / but i am going to keep my options open as well!

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