Hi everyone, I kind of disappeared for a while which I feel was a horrible mistake…I can’t believe that once things go the way we wish we tend to ignore the support that was there when we were down and in the dumps….my apologies to everyone. Well for those who know my break up story, it’s been a long road since I last posted on this forum…a quick update…..my ex contacted me in august and at first I was strong then was led by my heart not doing the right thing. He said he missed me and that he couldn’t stop thinking bout me during the month we were apart and that he understood what I meant that it’s the little things that matter and that his love was so strong…blah blah blah….but it worked…we started up again and I got my ring back on. Two months later I got married…congrats u say!!! Nope, things went back to what they were..I had heard along the way that he was going out and doing thgs and when I asked him that day he was declaring his love etc when he wanted to get back he said he was faithful and didn’t do anything but spend it with his boys…months later during an argument truth be told…yeah , he had gone out on a friendly date with his boys…and he said it was none of my business what he did cuz we weren’t together…..wow u say yeah. Had I known this I probably wouldn’t have gone back…why keep it from me esp when I asked to be told everythg so I could make a smart decision about getting back together. There’s more but too long to type…all in all I ran him out of house mon and changed the locks….gonna file for the big D next week….I’ve been so miserable throughout trying to keep it together and now that he is gone I feel relieved…any advice?????