Hi everyone, I have the most awesome person in my life.  But I have this pattern that is ruining everything. I’m afraid that I am making him sad and regretful that he started loving me.  When we go out if a woman says hello to him I feel threatened.  Last night we went out walking and everything was good but then this young woman said hello to him.  I automatically felt threatened and said something negative about that person. He said that I was acting pathetic and like a child, I dont’t know what to do. We are both the same age and I do feel threatened by younger women. They are slimmer, prettier and sexy than me.  And they only thing I have is that I love him and his family hugely.  I have never had such a loving and kind man.  This situation has occurred over and over, sometimes I can not let it interfere with us but there are days when I can’t beat it.  I feel selfish that he is with someone like me because I have this issue that I couldn’t possibly be enough for him to want to stay with me. I want to go out with him and feel confident that he is with me.  I’m scared he will not be there one day.