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  • April 18, 2018 at 9:15 am #203045
    Fridah
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    I cheated on my bf (we live together) almost a month ago and i confessed him, he has forgiven me but I haven’t forgiven myself for so much damage I have caused, I feel like a piece of nothing. I’m ashamed, afraid, sad, angry to myself, I put on risk everything for nothing, I feel like I don’t deserve anything nor anyone etc… I have all this negative feelings. I just need to know that everything will be ok and I’m not alone.

    Thanks!

    April 18, 2018 at 9:57 am #203053
    Anonymous
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    Dear Fridah:

    I hope that things will be okay for you, very soon.

    I wonder if when you confessed to him, if you expected that his forgiveness will take away your distress over the cheating; if you expected that and then you were surprised you were and are still distressed?

    anita

    April 18, 2018 at 6:42 pm #203107
    Airene
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    Hello Fridah,

    I hope you will find some peace with all of this soon as well.

    Everything I have read about relationships and infidelity…many couples can overcome infidelity, through communication, counseling and making a committed effort to save the relationship.

    I wonder if you have considered why you chose to cheat on your boyfriend?  And why you chose to tell him?  Please continue sharing if it will help.

    Airene

    April 19, 2018 at 9:57 am #203213
    Yostina
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    Hi Fridah,

    This is just a suggestion you don’t have to do what I tell you, but have you tried telling him that you can’t forgive yourself? have you tried opening up to him and telling him what you feel? I think when he knows what’s inside you, he will be more communicative himself too. Again this is just a suggestion.

    Peace & Love to both of you 🙂

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