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    Fridah
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    I cheated on my bf (we live together) almost a month ago and i confessed him, he has forgiven me but I haven’t forgiven myself for so much damage I have caused, I feel like a piece of nothing. I’m ashamed, afraid, sad, angry to myself, I put on risk everything for nothing, I feel like I don’t deserve anything nor anyone etc… I have all this negative feelings. I just need to know that everything will be ok and I’m not alone.

    Thanks!

    #203053
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Fridah:

    I hope that things will be okay for you, very soon.

    I wonder if when you confessed to him, if you expected that his forgiveness will take away your distress over the cheating; if you expected that and then you were surprised you were and are still distressed?

    anita

    #203107
    Airene
    Participant

    Hello Fridah,

    I hope you will find some peace with all of this soon as well.

    Everything I have read about relationships and infidelity…many couples can overcome infidelity, through communication, counseling and making a committed effort to save the relationship.

    I wonder if you have considered why you chose to cheat on your boyfriend?  And why you chose to tell him?  Please continue sharing if it will help.

    Airene

    #203213
    Yostina
    Participant

    Hi Fridah,

    This is just a suggestion you don’t have to do what I tell you, but have you tried telling him that you can’t forgive yourself? have you tried opening up to him and telling him what you feel? I think when he knows what’s inside you, he will be more communicative himself too. Again this is just a suggestion.

    Peace & Love to both of you 🙂

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