Well, clearly he’s a player. He’s got all these sex buddies and/or girls in love with him. He wants to know that you are in love with him, that’s why he teased you with the song apparently about you being in love with him!

1. The Song ~ Parry back, “But they’re talking about a girl not a guy” 😉

2. You might have to wait until he’s grown up and shed all these other girls.

3. You can’t really change this, just don’t wear your heart on your sleeve. If/when he teases you about it, just say, “Frankly all these other girls around you is a turn off, so I don’t know how I’d feel about you.”

4. Don’t be shy about dating other guys. Don’t flaunt them in his face, but don’t hide them either.

P.S. OMG, FaceBook drama!! If he won’t add you as a Friend he is totally hiding you OR all of them! Withdraw the Friend Request, he’s doing you a favor, actually, because FB drama will just add to your stress level. Imagine ten girls competing over who can come up with the most recent, exclusive, inner joke Wall Post about fun trips/events/parties no one else knew he was going on. 😛

• This reply was modified 10 years, 1 month ago by Inky.

You don’t have to get over him. But this is a maturity thing. He is still half-baked, immature, crazy. If he’s in HS, wait until he’s in College. College, then wait until out of school. 20s? Wait until he’s 30.

And the way to put his ego in check is to act like you’re above it all. (And you are!) Say, “I love you, Little Buddy, but I’m not IN love with you!” and give him a head noogie. If three girls are hanging all over him say, “Are you trying to make me jealous again?” with a wink and a smile. And date other guys. Wait a day before texting/calling him back. Write a one line text or only talk for five minutes on the phone (You are busy, after all, with your awesome life!). Act happy, light and fun when he’s with you, (no one likes a downer, and it will keep him wondering!) Wear makeup, change your hair style/color, get new fun clothes, get new bling (it will perk interest and keep you feeling new and beautiful! Shallow, but it works!)

And most importantly, Jedi-mind trick yourself into believing that you ARE All That, that you are his (or anyone’s!) It Girl. What will happen is all these other people will be congregating around you, that he’ll have trouble getting through!

So that’s all I’ve got. Good Luck!

I’m embarrassed to say that I still don’t know how that works here! Try @inky ?? But seriously, I’m lucky in love only because I got very, very lucky! I’m sorry you fell in love with a player. Think of love as having a bad case of the flu. You eventually get over it, but you may never be the same.

I Manifest a wedding at a vineyard with a perfect and perfectly Mature guy just for you!!!

So if you’re engaged already, this is not a problem, silly goose! 🙂

In a perfect world you will break off the engagement with Stephen who doesn’t have time for you and leave Dwane hanging ~ time for you to start over!! Being in love with someone else (who doesn’t seem interested) while being engaged is not a good harbinger for a long happy marriage!

Most people won’t do that, so cool it with your guy friend and heat it up with your fiancé!

Hi Again!

I meant that if Stephen really doesn’t have time for you (and you haven’t mailed out the wedding invitations yet) maybe don’t marry him!

Also, if you are already falling for other guys, it is possible he is not The One. Could save everyone some heartache.

If you do marry him, you can’t really flirt or wonder about other guys again!

Also, maybe Dwayne doesn’t want to get his butt kicked by flirting with another guy’s girl!