I’m just wondering, is it ok to have doubts sometimes about someone you really love? Or is that always a sign that things aren’t right? I’m talking about having some doubts in a healthy, loving, trusting relationships. Do most couples at some point in the relationships have doubts?
I have been with my fiance for 3 years and at times, I have doubts, I consider them normal as long as they don’t affect your relationship. But it is always good to keep in mind what the doubts are, if you need to you can always talk to your partner to make sure things are clear.
I think that means 2 possibilities
1) time has passed since you and your love have met.. and so a little bit of fading there is in your feelings.
2) it’s not the right person and this came up now. τυχαία.
If you are by nature “A Doubting Thomas” then don’t worry about it.
However, if you are a trusting, happy sort in life, and then have doubts in your relationship ~ listen. What is it that you are not telling yourself? Intuition is with us for a reason ~ put there by God so we don’t get ripped off, and so our loved ones are safe. It’s that Still Small Voice.
You don’t have to figure it out. You don’t even have to turn it off.
I just don’t want you to say “I knew it!” when something goes wrong.
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