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  • October 8, 2018 at 4:48 am #229699
    sparkle00
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    1. Hi everyone, I have been in a relationship for 3 years.  I have always been insecure. For example becoming jealous of another woman comparing myself constantly to other women. So it affects my relationship to the point where I have been arguing almost daily the last few weeks with my partner. I grew up with a single parent who was in a abusive relationship and continued to be treated badly from then on by every man in her life. So I don’t trust men I think they cheat, lie and are looking for the next best thing. I love him but don’t want to make him unhappy. I don’t know how to relax in my relationship and just trust. I’m always scared it will end and it almost has. How can I turn things around or is it too late. I have only had two relationships quite late in my life, the first one lied to me constantly. This one has continued to love me no matter what. I’m not sure should I give up but I love him so much.
    October 8, 2018 at 9:48 am #229751
    Inky
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    Hi sparkle00,

    The thing to internalize is that you will be fine (and are fine!) whether your boyfriend leaves you or not. That if a skanky ho steals your man, that he let himself be stolen and that there’s something wrong with him if he is attracted to skanky hos. That no woman is woman enough to take your man. And if it ever appears that way, then those are not real women but skanky hos that only loser men are attracted to, and that just means he is not ready for YOU, the Next Level of his life! And that if he dares to mess up that you won’t have any trouble dumping him and choosing the most likely guy already waiting in the wings for you.

    This you have to internalize.

    The first step is to remain silent about your crazy fears and complaints. So you hold your head up and enjoy him!

    Best,

    Inky

    • This reply was modified 6 years, 2 months ago by Inky.
    October 8, 2018 at 11:31 am #229781
    sparkle00
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    Thank you, but there’s more to the situation.  For 2 1/2 years no sexual contact (his choice), and this has never changed.  I’m worried that it will continue this way and we will lose our bond. Because we do have one. However he says that he has no urge and it’s not about how he feels about me.

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