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  • January 19, 2018 at 10:53 pm #187705
    Buddi
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    You are too young to be so serious in life. I say this with experience please learn to enjoy life and by that I mean learn to enjoy your company i.e being alone.

    Instead of being in and out of relationships invest in your self I promise you it will help in the future. Take a class, meet new people , learn new things , travel if none of this is possible simply re-do your room. You are in India take a yoga class and see if you learn a new language. If are not thinking of Masters then start thinking about your future and specialize in it by taking classes or working on different projects.

    Please remember and understand one thing GUYS/PEOPLE WILL COME AND GO but a few things will always be with you so work on things that will stay with you for life such as education , your inner stillness no one can take that from you. I hope this helps.

     

    Gyani

     

     

     

    January 20, 2018 at 4:52 am #187721
    Anonymous
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    Dear S:

    That is a whole lot of activity that you described, lots of guys. You wrote that you “want to build integrity and the ability to be true to (yourself)”, that you want to raise the quality of your life. You asked: “How do I do it?”

    My answer: do slow down and stop all that distracting activity.

    You wrote: “Sometimes I feel like the more I think about these things, there’s so much negativity that I unearth that exists within me and my mind, that I couldn’t bear to live with these thoughts anymore”-

    By “these thoughts” are you referring to the description of the whirlwind activity you described? Or are there other thoughts and feelings attached that you have been running away from by going on a … sort of a dating binge?

    anita

     

    January 20, 2018 at 7:36 am #187735
    Eliana
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    Hi S.

    It looks like you have received some great advice, so I don’t have much to add. There is a great book, I have read several times on this very topic. It really helped see me through difficult times and letting go. It’s a best selling book. You can buy it on line, library or bookstore. It’s called “Take Your Life Back, How To Stop Letting Your Past And Other People Control You” by Steven Arterburn M.ED, PH.D. This book is amazing, I hope if purchased, you will find it helpful. x

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