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February 24, 2014 at 10:43 pm #51702RDBParticipant
Hello everybody,
I am 30 and married for past 2 years now…. talking about qualification, I am masters in engineering. I had been a confident guy ever my life, being good in academics and a sportsperson, I had been confident in everything I get involve.
after completing my masters, I worked in a college, teaching students. But as I wanted more in life, I got a career switch chance in a french MNC in the work profile and domain I ever wanted. Thought this would bring everything in perfect balance in my life. Got married same time to a long loved beautiful girl. Life seemed perfect.
But from past 1.5 year, company is going through bad times in business. I almost have no work at office. So i started doing my stuff at the office hours.
Now from last one year, I had been searching for a job but could find one. Just for the sake of count of years of experience, I stayed with this company. Now completing 2 years, and I am finding myself with absolutely low confidence level.
Major reason for this is, Fear of losing this job as business is all time low, and not finding a suitable job till then.
I don’t want myself to be called unemployed. I was a super cool confident guy, but I don’t know what is happening to me. I feel like crying all the time. “I wasn’t like this”
I am struggling to find job but not getting success in that. I don’t want to come to my current office, as people are full of negative thoughts. Each day I pray for a new job, but didn’t get success.
Only thing I Miss is my super cool confident attitude, which I have completely loss…
Please help and suggest… thanks
February 24, 2014 at 11:05 pm #51706AnyoneParticipantHi RDB,
I can understand your situation, for I have been through being ‘unemployed’. I had no support from my fiance, family was strong. One of my uncles supported me, asked me to stay at his place and not go back to my hometown which is a small city with less opportunities.
I can understand that you must have a lot of financial responsibilities. Hold your head high. Be strong. It’s not the end of the world. Take out and throw the fear out of you. Take support of your near and dear ones and sail through this tough time. Take a deep breath and think out of the box for what could be other ventures and possibilities of employment.
Stay strong!
February 25, 2014 at 9:52 pm #51800PurposeParticipantHi RBD ..im sorry for how you are feeling these days… anything said by anyone anywhere ..doesnt help us sometimes ..just because we are too much concentrating on the issue.(.lets not say it a problem) ..so please for this moment when u r reading this..think .. how u are..what u think of yourself apart from academics n proffesional stature… ” IM a confident guy..very good in sports..voo..i have sportsman spirit too.. i have a sound married life…friends feel great in my presence.. (please think all your personal achievements which you can remember…) so here you are… did u feel little better.. Im sure you did..!! 🙂
you knw we all go through and grow through such tough times… sometimes we need to see whats within us…not outside..this time is testing your patience,…let u be again confident as u ve been always… let that sportsman spirit come back n you wait for ur strike…. let there be no doubt on your own self….
you are perfect even if u dont have a great job or struggling thru this time… DONT attach your self worth with job monitary gains… you would always be awesome…come what may… your salary n bank balance has not made u confident n good friend… trust yourself that u will build your life better..with these struggles as stepping stone…
in the end i wud like u to tel u that.. all successful people went thru what u r going thru..so consider this al God’s plan to make u better 🙂Im hopeful that u will come out of this soon..will wait for a reply wid smiles from u 🙂 tc
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