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  • March 2, 2019 at 5:17 pm #282553
    Anonymous
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    Hello everyone. I have OCD and i am feeling right now a bit anxious over something that happened. I was eating with my friends and i was telling the story bewteen me and a person who was horrible to me. I explained them what he did to me and everything. Then we changed the topic but i still mention a thing that a friend told me about that person, that i was right, that he was awful etc. Then i look around and he was in a table near me. I didnt notice but a friend did. My friend told me that they arrived after i had explained them what he did but im still anxious.

    He wasnt a good friend and even now i feel guilty because i talked bad about him. He used to call me names, mock me, etc.

    March 3, 2019 at 3:06 am #282587
    JayJay
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    Why be anxious about calling someone out on their behaviour? Whether it’s to that person directly or talking about them to someone else? Whether this person heard it or not, does it really matter that much? If he was calling you names and mocking you, then you don’t need to feel guilty or anxious about anything you said about him.

    March 3, 2019 at 6:06 am #282613
    Anonymous
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    Dear margaery:

    You wrote: “I have OCD and I am feeling right now a bit anxious over something that happened”- having had OCD myself, I know that when you no longer feel anxious about one happening, you will soon enough feel anxious about something else.

    Therefore better look at what started it all, what started the significant anxiety that is feeding and fueling the OCD.

    Did you attend psychotherapy so to learn what that ongoing fear aka anxiety is about?

    anita

    March 3, 2019 at 8:58 am #282635
    Jill
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    You spoke your truth about someone, that is ok.

     

     

    March 4, 2019 at 5:32 am #282745
    Hemant
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    Hi there,

    I am extremely tensed and anxious and need immediate help on one of my most critical decision. Professionally i am into healthcare industry and works in management capacity.

    currently i am going through a very stressful situation, as i am offered the job discussion with my previous company with who i have worked earlier for 7 years. The same company earlier ( 3 years back) offered me another reassociation opportunity at another location, but i did not join because that time my professional life was very smooth. Now these days, the place where i am working now is Ok but only thing its not a “recognized Brand.” In terms of my salary, family time, position i have grown these years, but now with a small hospital and a non branded small organisation.

    With these situation, my previous company which is a big branded company, called me for a management position in their mumbai hospital. but i am confused because:

    1. I am afraid of moving to a Bigger City, mainly Mumbai, because of its hectic life, traffic and most importantly security of my daughter (she is 13 yrs old).

    2. My daughter is in a very critical stage, she is completing class 8th and now would be moving to class 9th. A very crucial time for her because next year she will be appearing for board exams.

    3. Meanwhile, i have a FEAR that if i stay with the current organisation i will be off-mainstream and as people say, “Out-of-sight-out-mind” means i will not get later good, corporate job offers?

    In this whirlpool, me and my entire family is swirling and i am genuinely looking some help allowing me to take the right decision, as to should stay or join the old company or look for another new company? Please help me and save my family …… we are dying thinking day-night and weighing options??

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