Dear Giulia:
Eating healthily, that is, not just eating healthful foods, but eating in a way that works for me and not against me, has been my challenge for a long, long time. I found out that my overall healing is making my eating healthier. For as long as I tried the diet approach, I did succeed in losing weight but at a cost of obsessing on food and ending up very anxious about food and eating every single day. As I am healing my core issues, my eating and my own IBS are improving.
Be patient and gentle with yourself. Make slow but steady improvement every day, little by little, it is a long term project.
anita