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December 11, 2017 at 2:22 pm #181647KatieParticipant
About 2 weeks ago my best friend Jennie had a party at her house. I was at the party but went home. When the party was over, a few people slept over her house. My one friend Gianna slept in Jennie’s bed with Jennie and her boyfriend. So it was the 3 of them in bed. Jennie said she fell asleep right away as she was exhausted. Apparently what happened was as Jennie was sleeping, Gianna and Jennie’s boyfriend had sex twice. This is extremely disturbing to me as Jennie was fast asleep next to them, they did it in the same bed she was sleeping in (and it was her own bed too). Jennie and Gianna have been best friends for 8 years, and Gianna has always had issues with confidence. Guys would always ignore Gianna as she is not the most conventionally pretty girl. She is also very desperate. She would always text guys nude photos saying “hey” then would be like “oops wrong person”… yeah. Once a guy replied to her and began talking to her so she began to drink pineapple juice just in case he wanted to hook up. So obviously when Jennie’s boyfriend initiated sex, it happened. I am no longer friends with Gianna because I do not agree with who she was as a person. She began to become very cocky and put others down for her own good. I think this was just another example of her not caring about anyone else in order to get attention from somebody. Unfortunately Jennie is still with her boyfriend, not sure why anyone would stay with someone who would do this type of thing. Jennie and him have been dating for 4 years and plan to marry, which is why it was so horrible was Gianna did. Gianna was there when Jennie would sob over them having a fight. Well, I guess I just wanted an outside opinion. I think I need to distance myself from Gianna and Jennie but I have been best friends with them for 5 years. I just do not like this energy… what is your opinion on the situation? Am I doing the right think? I have stopped contact with Gianna because of what she did. Was I wrong for leaving my friend of 5 years? Why won’t Jennie leave her boyfriend??
December 13, 2017 at 6:47 am #181895Kevin MParticipantTo be clear about this, does Jennie have an issue with this behavior? Or does she accept this as if they are in a relationship with the three of them and that you are having a problem with it?
January 12, 2018 at 4:01 am #186285MeanderParticipant- Does your relationship with Gianna and Jennie enrich your life in some way?
- Or do you feel like you should be holding onto the relationship because of your history together, and feel it would dishonour that to move on/away from your relationships with them?
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