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  • #62436
    Miguel
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    Im currently working at a job that i like & currently happy with that pays well.

    I just seen my friend post a picture of him working out and looking good. He said he was on his grind and always seems to know what he is doing.

    i dont know what path i want to take and what i want to grind at.

    I dont know who i am and really need to figure myself out.

    i just know i want to be very successful but been getting bad grades and being lazy.

    help me please with some words of wisdom

    #62443
    Inky
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    Don’t you hate it when you’re clipping along and suddenly (It’s always suddenly) you see someone in your face who has a mission in life, looks good, becomes famous, has a fabulous vacation house, a hot spouse, etc., etc.

    I literally just woke up to a similar FB picture. It’s a stab to the gut. It hurts.

    But consider ~ If their life was going so awesomely, they would probably not post statuses at all. They would forget, they would be doing other things, they wouldn’t want to make people jealous. They just want validation!! That’s what it is.

    I myself only post family milestone events. A few a year. I think I’m being modest. But, looking at my posts in totality, it shows I’m a terrible braggart. (“Look how wonderful my family is!”) And then, I got blocked by one of my pals. Because her life was filled with discontent.

    Don’t be filled with discontent. Plug out of social media and pay attention to your own amazing life!!

    #62444
    Inky
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    P.S. You know what to do ~ Crack open the books and continue with your great job!!

    #62446
    Anonymous
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    This woke me up a bit. I am 45 years old now but I used to be 23 flunking out of college (I went back and graduated at 34). So I sat here wondering what to say to my former self. I came up with this, “The only thing I don’t regret is what I did to help people”.

    #62458
    Deborah Fairfull
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    What gets you enthusiastically wanting to get out of bed every day? Find out what you love to do and what is meaningful to you. Allow yourself to express your talents through your work, and you will be living your life on purpose. Do what makes your soul sing.

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