If I’m doing the math right, it’s been 5 years he’s been remarried. Thoughts:

1. Clearly, getting remarried a year after a divorce is in the realm of midlife crisis land.

2. Moving two doors down is on the surface being close to the children, but it is really putting their “happiness” in your face. It was a controlling move.

3. He may have “moved on”, but the honeymoon next door is probably over. They are now having their “damn dailies”, drudgery and routine.

4. Even if he had stayed single and moved across the country, after six years most people naturally move on into their new life.

5. Ditch the meds (with doc’s help), seek amazing therapy, sell your house and move (for a true new beginning) and see other people.

Just know that whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger. It’s true. This won’t kill you. It’s hard. By no means do I want to minimize what you’re going through. But you will get through this. My divorce was so simple — we didn’t fight, had no kids, agreed on everything, didn’t even go to court. But I wanted to die because I felt like such a failure. Now that I’m on the other side I can see that God had another better plan for my life. Just have faith. And know that faith is believing in what common sense tells you not to believe. God has you in the palm of his hand. He won’t let go of you and you should never let go of him either. Hang in there — things will get better. I know from experience. Bless you and don’t ever forget LADIES — life after divorcse is eventually sane.