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    Sarah
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    Hello everyone, I’m a student in a budding relationship. He’s basically a gender-swapped me: we could talk for hours on end or we can sit in silence comfortably. He loves everything I love and more, and despite the fact that we are so alike, there is still so much to discover about each other.

    I’ve never felt this way about anyone–mostly since I’m quite young–but I find myself hesitant to open myself to him. My views of the world are very romantic…. except when it comes to romance. I feel uncomfortable with corny expressions of passion or exchanging sentimental thoughts. The place where we differ is that he loves to bare his feelings to me, whereas I prefer to keep them hidden.

    I’m worried that our relationship will remain shallow since I am scared to open my heart to him, but I feel nauseous even thinking about it. I don’t know what to do. Please help me if you can. Thank you.

    #50342
    Megan
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    Don’t be too hard on yourself. Opening up your heart to someone is a very scary thing. Only move as quickly as you feel comfortable. Everyone in our lives is there for a reason and there is something we can learn from every relationship. Try to relax and embrace the fact that you have found someone special. Don’t worry about feeling uncomfortable with “corny” expressions of emotion–everyone is unique in the way that they show their love for others. With time and patience you will both come to have a better understanding of the ways in which you communicate your feelings. Take your time and try taking small steps toward opening up your heart if the thought of jumping right in with everything you have is scary–of course it is going to be a little scary, it is always a risk–but without risk you may never know how things could be.

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    Sarah
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    Thank you so much for your reply. I will take your advice. Peace!

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