Hi

Need an advise and opinion here. Since Sunday night, my boyfriend which a single father has giving me a silent Treatment. In March we broke by him just send me a text message that he was not Feeling into our relationship. I was devastated at that time but I accepted his decision by replied to him in a good manner. But after a month he came back writing to that it was not the reason. First reason is that he was not honest to me that  he has another child on top of 2 child and about his financial Situation that is not easy. He was honest about he has fear that me will break up with him if he tell me that. Instead he broke up with me. After a Long talk we address the issue that it was due to the lack of communication. I realized sometime he has Problem with communication and often try to avoid discussion when we have an Argument. In the end I gave him second Chance, but I told him about my concern that we should improve of our communication if we want this relationship to work.

It was nice between us until last Sunday. We should meet on Monday and spent time together which we agreed since a week. We have limited time for each other due to his Kids time. It started from me sending message if I could come after midday to him because I Need to arrange my Meeting the next day. He ignored me for 3 hour but he was online I could see, I started to feel annoyed and write him ‘Is it too difficult for him to answer and I feel a bit dissapointed that he ignored me because I Need to arrange my time and Meeting for tomorrow. He still has Kids that day. But he became soo angry about my message. It turned into big Argument from just that message, It turned out that he Need to arrange kid doctor appoinment which in the end our time together cancel because he and his ex just realized about the appoinment that time. But he makes me feel that I did not understand his Situation and blamed him for sometime he could not changed. He feel he Need to justify everything to me. I became so shocked, from just a question now the whole table turned into my mistake and everything blamed on me where I was not informed about anything regarding kid doctor appoinment and I feel left about in the relationship and I have to accept everything of not enough communication from him. Everything just about him and his Kids that I Need to accept and understand where was not even say sorry that the whole planned turn the other way around.

After few message, he decided to just end our discussion and until now no News from him. He declined my phone call and did not answered my message. I proposed to talk instead of writing but he just ignored. I feel again this communication Problem and my trust again broken. Part of me feel that he is a good man except this lack of communication but part of me wanted to give up.