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May 19, 2019 at 8:55 am #294485
AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
You told your estranged wife’s brother that you will help him because he is your son’s uncle. I don’t understand: is your son’s uncle in your son’s life, does your son know this uncle?
If your son doesn’t know this uncle, has no relationship with this uncle, how is he an uncle?
anita
May 19, 2019 at 2:02 pm #294579
ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
I was meaning that if he is the little second last brother to my estrange wife , then I was calling him , he is the uncle to my son ,, ,, not me.
I just want to put into that statement. You are correct my son, doesn’t know that he has the uncle.
May 19, 2019 at 2:13 pm #294585ThonditParticipantYes, you are right here too…. . My son’s uncle is not in my son’s life.
So I told him yesterday that I have a lots of things to handle. So I won’t promise you that I will help you with the phone .
May 19, 2019 at 3:39 pm #294591AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
If this boy, your estranged wife’s brother is not in your son’s life and your son doesn’t know him, then he is not your son’s uncle. You are financially responsible for your son, not for an uncle he doesn’t know, not for an aunt he doesn’t know, etc.
* I will soon be away from the computer and back in about 15 hours from now.
anita
May 20, 2019 at 12:38 am #294649ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
You are absolutely right ✔️ and perhaps I have to shun all the door they are target to get in.
I am completely off from their wrong doers and I think nothing connects us again.
May 20, 2019 at 11:50 am #294779AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
I like your thinking: to close your door to people who are trying to use you for their advantage and your disadvantage.
anita
May 20, 2019 at 6:40 pm #294851ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Thanks so much for the support .
God, has a purpose of creating me to be Gregory Chan, he knows very well, that he has plans something better for me. I have a positive attitude and hope that one day not very far they will both or one of them , will kneel down begging for a “forgiveness”
And however , much they Cry heavily , or heaven and earth , I swear I will never spare to forgive them.
These are Satan, they are destroying people , ayong and her mother.
What they think is worst than any others killers disease.
Gregory .
May 20, 2019 at 7:10 pm #294853ThonditParticipantmarriage, is bullshit , as well. Love is a serious sickness, ,,,,,
Wasted billions of my time. People use to fear because of how I handle my things and how I’m going on with my studies.
I think the good part in marriage is to have children period .
I wrote a very nice composition in English paper 1 in the year my National Examination .about this woman of mine. By then she was in primary school.
The tittle was LOVE IS BLIND.
I was rank the good student in that paper .
May 20, 2019 at 7:11 pm #294855ThonditParticipantAnita,
You had not answered some of my posts you promised to.
May 21, 2019 at 7:59 am #294923AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
I see three recent posts that I didn’t answer:, the three were posted within half an hour.
“I have positive attitude and hope that one day not very far they will both or one of them, will kneel down begging for a ‘forgiveness'”- you mean Ayong and her mother. But you “will never spare to forgive them”.
“What they think is worst than any others killers disease”- you write so well, you have a unique way of saying things.
– I don’t know if they will beg your forgiveness and if they do- see to it that it is not an act, a theatrical performance aimed at motivating you to give them something they want, like money, or worse.. your son!
“marriage, is bullshit, as well. Love is a serious sickness”- when you marry the wrong person, when you love the wrong person, then it is a sickness, it brings sickness to the one who loves.
“Wasted billions of my time”- this is the .. human condition, I have learned. We people do waste billions of our time. Pay attention now, and every day, to waste less and less, and to not waste time at all, that will be best.
“I think the good part in marriage is to have children period”- not a good part if the child will suffer. Bring children into the world only if you can give them a safe home, a home (no matter how small or inexpensive) where there is no fighting, no shouting, no trouble, where the child can grow up to have peace in his own mind and heart.
“I wrote a very nice composition in English paper 1 in the year my National Examination about this woman of mine. By then she was in primary school. The title was LOVE IS BLIND”- do you have this composition still? If you can and want to, can you type it here? I would love to read it!
anita
May 21, 2019 at 6:06 pm #295017ThonditParticipantDear Anita ,
Yeah I still have it in my head.
The composition that I wrote 6 years ago,, ,,,, that 2013,, ,,,,
You will see it shortly Anita .
I also wrote a book about this woman when I was in Nairobi – Kenya.
People enjoyed reading it. I was also a columnist with a daily News paper in Nairobi .
Every Saturday we advise people of the same kinds concerning relationships .
Anita, just a moment you will see it shortly.
May 21, 2019 at 6:20 pm #295019ThonditParticipantYou will enjoy it , the reading of my composition, and I guess you will be able to describe who Gregory is!
If I could still remember the examination that I did , then what about composition? Give me few minutes to type it here.
May 22, 2019 at 5:17 am #295059AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
You wrote a book? And columns in a newspaper? My goodness!
Take your time typing the composition, maybe it is too long to type here, too difficult. You can type only a paragraph of it here, or two, not the whole thing?
anita
July 27, 2019 at 3:42 am #305153ThonditParticipantHello Everyone @ this forum tinybuddha.
Especially Anita, Mark,,,,, Jay Jay. And the rest whom your names are not been manuscript here…. I want to say again again that the woman who left in the month of march came back to me for apologizing that she was wrong before and moreover her mother was misleading her !!!!
Another thing is !!! She said she want another child to have with me in order to follow the boy that we had before.
As i tell you now they are in disagreement with her mom at this junction. She told her mother ,,,, you gave me wrong advice to leave my husband and my beloved son.
She makes her own decision last week when i saw her post on fb posting the photos of his son Agoth Christ. She call my own father in order to convince me!
What should i do? Gregory
July 27, 2019 at 7:17 am #305171AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
Welcome back to your thread. Your estranged wife is back. But think of it: you shared before that she was spending time like other married women in hotels having sex with other men for money. The governor then enforced a rule where hotels are to request women for identification before allowing them into the hotel, so to check if they are married.
Is it possible that this was done, she can’t make money as a prostitute anymore, so she is back to you?
anita
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