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  • #439975
    anita
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    Dear Tom:

    You’re welcome! It’s great to hear that you’re maintaining calm and doing what you can in the face of challenges. Realizing that it’s just a job and doesn’t define you is such a powerful insight. It can make a big difference in how you approach and manage work-related stress.

    Remembering that we are more than our jobs allows us to focus on what truly matters and find balance in other areas of our lives. Keep up the great attitude, and take time to appreciate the things that bring you contentment and fulfillment outside of work.

    Take care, and wishing you all the best!

    anita

    #441007
    anita
    Participant

    M e R r Y C h R i S t M a S T o M 🎄🎅 ✨❄️ 🎁 😊 !

    anita

    #441068
    Tom
    Participant

    Thank you Anita

    Merry Christmas to you too.

    I have a few days downtime before heading back to work.

    #441071
    anita
    Participant

    You’re welcome! I hope you enjoy your downtime and get some well-deserved rest before heading back to work. 😊 Wishing you a wonderful New Year ahead!

    Take care, anita

    #441160
    Tom
    Participant

    Happy New Year!

    I have been battling a flu for a few weeks and back to work tomorrow. The flu meant I didn’t prepare as much for my return to work as I would have liked but I am resting today and will go back tomorrow with an open mind.

    #441177
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Tom:

    Happy New Year! 🎉

    I’m sorry to read that you’ve been battling the flu—I hope you’re feeling much better very soon. It’s good that you’re taking today to rest before heading back to work. Just take it one step at a time, and I hope the new year brings you better days ahead!

    anita

    #441514
    Tom
    Participant

    Hi Anita,

    Hope all is well.

    Settled back in at work now and while it’s going ok, deep down I do believe it may not be for me long term. It is well paid though so I guess the issue I have is walking away from that. The UK is very expensive currently and it’s not straight forward to find another job instantly.

    I am doing my journaling and gratitude every day and using the calm app and all of this is helping keep a good perspective on things.

    #441532
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Tom:

    Thanks for asking! I’m doing well, and I hope you are too.

    I’m glad to hear you’ve settled back in at work. It’s great that you’re using journaling, gratitude, and the Calm app to maintain a positive perspective.

    You’re in a difficult position, weighing the financial benefits of the job against your long-term happiness and well-being. It’s understandable to have mixed feelings about staying in a role that doesn’t feel like the right fit for you in the long run.

    I think that it’d be beneficial to give more space to your feelings of discontent at work, meaning, to express these feelings, rather than suppress them: this can help prevent these feelings from building up and becoming overwhelming over time. Whether it’s through talking with a trusted friend, therapist, and/ or continuing to journal here, on your thread or elsewhere, continuing to express your feelings and thoughts on the matter can provide relief and clarity.

    Your well-being is incredibly important, and finding healthy ways to express your feelings can make a significant difference.

    Take care, anita

    #441602
    Tom
    Participant

    Hi Anita,

    As always, thanks for the response.

    Outside of what I am doing, how else would you recommend I express the feelings?

    I have a couple of friends I exchange messages with and my partner knows to a point but probably not the full extent as I don’t want to be overly negative about things to her as she is also trying to practice gratitude and manifestation and being positive so conscious I shouldn’t lower her ‘vibe’. Thanks

    #441616
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Tom:

    You are welcome, as always, and thank you for your thoughtful response. It’s great that you have a couple of friends to exchange messages with and that you’re mindful of your partner’s positivity practice.

    Here are a few additional ways you might consider expressing your feelings:

    Beyond journaling, you might try creative writing, poetry, or storytelling. Sometimes exploring fictional narratives can provide new perspectives on real-life emotions.

    Engaging in artistic activities like drawing, painting, or playing a musical instrument can be a powerful way to express and process emotions.

    Activities like running, yoga, or even a brisk walk can help release built-up tension and clear your mind.

    Dance or other forms of expressive movement (like Tai Chi) can be a unique way to channel your emotions physically.

    Beyond the Calm app, you might explore other guided meditations focused on emotional release and healing.

    Incorporating mindfulness exercises, such as body scans or mindful breathing, can help you stay present and connected with your emotions.

    Joining a support group or group therapy can provide a sense of community and understanding from others who may be experiencing similar challenges, and of course, therapy or counseling.

    It’s important to find what resonates with you and feels right for your situation. You’re doing a great job by taking proactive steps for your well-being, and it’s commendable that you’re considering how your actions impact those around you.

    Take care and keep prioritizing your emotional health.

    anita

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