Suffering Erythrophobia

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April 26, 2018 at 7:02 am #204225

Anonymous
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Dear Regi:

Reads to me that you enjoy the interaction with her and you want it to continue. It feels good. Sometimes it feels bad and you don’t want it. But when it feels good, you want it.

Being guided solely by one’s feeling is not a good way to live one’s life. Got to balance feelings and logic, the emotional and the rational.

anita

April 26, 2018 at 7:38 am #204245

Regi
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Yes I still enjoy it, ofcourse 🙁 I’ll try again to make her stop.. The blushing will probably get worse but this bad relationship should end anyways.. No one can end this blushing and this relationship except me, by having the right mindset.

Thanks alot for your vision Anita

Much love

Regi

April 26, 2018 at 7:46 am #204247

Anonymous
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Dear Regi:

You are welcome and thank you for your kind words.

I hope to read more from you on this thread (and elsewhere); I would like to know about what happens next.

anita

May 1, 2018 at 5:19 am #205035

Regi
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I told her to stop seducing me with sexy texts when she was trying to seduce me again. I tried to say it friendly but that didn’t work. This was 2 days ago.

Yesterday I told her to stop, again. I told her I didn’t want to be her plan B anymore and that I wanted to move on. I said that this situation was becoming truly insane. She said: whatever. So I didn’t answer that text anymore. After that she got really pissed because I didn’t answer on her ‘whatever’, so we had a fight. I didn’t hold back like I used to, I said everything I wanted to say.

This morning she raged at me AGAIN because she didn’t like to be confronted with the fact that our situation is fucked up. She starts talking about it but she can’t handle my responses. I’m ignoring her now, I’m not sure if we can remain friends… At this moment I hate her, she rages about every single word that she doesn’t want to hear.

I just wanted to share this, I feel stupid that I have invested so much effort in this girl…

Regi

May 1, 2018 at 5:30 am #205043

Anonymous
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Dear Regi:

You wrote: “I feel stupid that I have invested so much effort in this girl”- it will be indeed unwise to continue to give her the power to decide for you anything at all, from whether you should be receiving sexy messages from her or not.

It will be wiser if you decide to… make it your decision, not hers.

anita

May 3, 2018 at 4:17 am #205369

Regi
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Dear anita

Like you said I made it my decision. She wanted to talk about it, we also talked about if it was possible to remain regular friends. We concluded that it would be difficult, but we decided to try anyways, like always. I regret the fact that I’ve been so friendly because she was being very sweet in return. I like it too much when she’s happy and kind, and she was also dressed extra sexy…

I realize now that I still feel very attracted to her, now even more… I can’t help it :s

Deep down I know that we can’t be friends without constant temptation and struggle to not kiss each other… I feel sad, I don’t want her out of my life, but I know I should end this.. My feelings and the logical part of my brain are fighting, it makes me tired…

Regi

May 3, 2018 at 4:54 am #205393

Anonymous
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Dear Regi:

You are conflicted and that is tiring. Being conflicted means you have an internal fight going on inside: you want her in your life and you think you shouldn’t. On one hand it feels good to keep going as is with her, on the other hand it feels bad when you think about it being wrong, even shameful (what your brother said at the dinner table).

Hence, the conflict, the internal struggle.

anita

August 15, 2018 at 3:54 pm #221655

Karnan Francis
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I’m male/16 and I have this problem and only us really understand how it makes you feel, I would give my story of it but it would be too long aha, I really want to talk to someone who has the same problem as we would be able to relate to each other. Seriously boy, girl or alien I don’t care, let me know if anyone is up for talking about it
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