Dear Calm Moon,

Leaving a job that drained you—physically, emotionally, and energetically—was not a failure. It was a powerful act of self-protection. The toll it took on your body speaks volumes, and the fact that you’re still showing up, still applying, still dreaming of something better? That’s resilience.

The job opportunity you described sounds aligned with the vision you set for yourself. Even if the outcome isn’t certain yet, the fact that you’re moving toward it with intention matters deeply.

And applying for a Master’s program abroad while managing financial stress? That’s a lot for one nervous system to hold. It makes sense that your mind feels constantly “on.” You’re carrying multiple layers of uncertainty, and still showing up.

So let this be your reminder: You are not behind. You are not failing. You are not lazy. You are doing the hard work of rebuilding with care and discernment.

If it helps, you might anchor yourself with a mantra like: “I am allowed to move slowly. I am allowed to protect my peace. I am allowed to choose what aligns.”

Sending you steadiness and respect as you move through this next chapter. You’re doing beautifully.

Warmly, Anita

Hi Calm Moon

Yes, it was very healthy and brave of you to leave your previous workplace. I’m sorry to hear that you are worried about your finances. Good luck with your job search, I hope you find something that suits your needs soon! Try to remember to take care of yourself and relax. It sounds like you are doing your best. ❤️

Hi Calm Moon:

Good to read from you this Mon morning- in this thread and in James’s threads!

You are very welcome, and thank you for your gratitude and good wishes 🙏

You wrote: “I have found a job and like it so far!”- congratulations!

.. Yet keeping with James’s words in his thread “When nothing is Mine”, this new job is not yours, and there’s no “I” to like or dislike it?

And this release of ownership and the “I”‘s attachment to it, the fear of losing it, perhaps.. That should keep Calm Moon calm 🙂?

🤍 Anita