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  • November 7, 2016 at 5:38 am #119820
    Renz Han
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    Hey! Everyone! Good People of Tiny Buddha!

    I just want to share my problem. I’m a wallflower & loner person since junior highschool I because total introverted guy I’m just sitting in the corner of the room and nobody talks to me i feel so alone and i feel so bad about myself everytime I remember those memories, i dont know what’s wrong with me maybe i’m total awkward guy and people there are bullying me because i’m gay, i’m weird and always alone sigh they are always laughing at me and always teasing me. Sigh! What a painful memory i just don’t fit with people always and I graduated high school and i think none of my classmates have great memory with me. Because of that I developed a social anxiety that really hits my life so hard. Now I’m a senior college I became avoidant person I avoid people at all cost I don’t why i feel people are judging me and thinking that i’m a weird ass person i feel sorry to myself. My only close friend classmate who I can share my problem and anxieties left me because of financial problem and i feel so alone & i dont have many close friends, I just dont fit with the society and now i’m college student i’m still wallflower sitting in the corner hehe! I feel so small because i think i chose a wrong way of life, I feel insecure because i’m not enough. I just want to be happy!

    Thank You!

    • This topic was modified 7 years, 5 months ago by Renz Han.
    November 7, 2016 at 5:53 am #119824
    Anonymous
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    Dear Renz Han:

    I am sorry you were bullied in school. No wonder you want to avoid people, based on your experience.

    Instead of sitting there in the corner, not being talked to, look around, in the classroom or outside and become a chooser. Meaning, choose the one person you want to talk to. Don’t wait to be chosen, be the chooser.

    Look around you, who does not seem like a bully? Maybe there is another person sitting in another corner. And maybe if the two of you talk there will be a desire to talk more, and more.

    anita

    November 7, 2016 at 6:14 am #119828
    Mishika
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    Hi Renz,
    After reading your story I am assuming you are not confident enough to face the world. People will only think you are an ass till the time you’l feel sorry for yourself. SO STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELf, Stand up and do something about it. Realise that your life purpose isn’t just to please everyone or touch hearts. Realise this.
    Never accept anything less than you deserve .Remeber you teach people how to treat you.
    so first you need to accept yourself and feel confident enough for who you are. then see what happens .
    Stop isolating yourself and go outside
    You may also read

    Are You Feeling Sad?

    I hope this helps you 🙂

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