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  • #124956

    Mishika
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    Hi veronica
    According to me you must choose the second option . though its a lesser salary option but you meet different people you’ll travel . And so you’l learn more. And growth always comes with learning. cConfidence always comes with learning. And dealing with different people is only a challenge till the time you keep thinking its a challenge otherwise its more fun .
    Just go for it. And choose the 2nd choice.
    And believe in yourself that you have taken the right choice.

    Will wait for your decision 🙂

    • This reply was modified 8 months, 2 weeks ago by  Mishika.
    • This reply was modified 8 months, 2 weeks ago by  Mishika.
    #120698

    Mishika
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    Hi Sylvia,
    After reading your story, all I could think of is that his past has not been too great and he really need somebody who could understand him and deal with his mood swings. If you really want to be with him than you would really need to keep a a lot of patience and definitely not judge him for anything that he does to understand him better .
    But as you said you are losing self respect for him and are not able to love him than you need to discuss everything you feel with him and take a decision whatever you both think is right for you guys.
    You must read this what happens when we love a person and what happens when we start hating that same person?

    Love is the beauty


    Mishika 🙂

    #120549

    Mishika
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    Hi birdyy
    My question for you. Who says learning to swim at the age of 22 is not cool? Or you are too old to learn swimming . Please take this out of your mind . And if you want to learn to swim please do that. Your first step to feel little less lonely. I myself have learned swimming when I was 24 years old.
    And same with gymming you don’t need to wait for anyone to join with you. Rather once you’l join gym and after when your friends will see you enjoying gyming they join with you .
    So 2 things you can do that you want to do and that will definitely make you feel more fresh positive and will take the feeling of being lonely.
    Its good that you want everything to be perfect. But like you gave your 8th grade example if it doesn’t turn out to be what you expected you muststill keep your hopes high for the result.

    And because you are feeling lonely you must read this why spending time alone is a gift

    Feeling lonely

    Mishika 🙂

    #120465

    Mishika
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    Hi zxy

    You are not alone, be assured. A first love is pretty intense and I’ll bet most people remember those heady days of romance and desire.

    Sad to hear that it turned sour but it is a most energetic age with ups and downs, anxieties, hopes, disappointments. Your symptoms sound very familiar.
    See what I believe in is that if you really loved him set him free because right now he might be feeling suffocated because you dint like his friends and asked him to not meet them after school hours which he used to enjoy and because he might be feeling pressurised he asked you to not tell him whom he should meet or not so just set him free, if he comes back then hes yours, If he doesn’t comes back he was never yours.

    And because you are feeling lost and lonely you might read this :

    Are you Tired of feeling Lonely?

    Thanks
    Mishika:)

    • This reply was modified 10 months, 1 week ago by  Mishika.
    #120158

    Mishika
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    HI lexy99
    I understand that if you have been associated with this company for 10years it will not easy to leave . So just keep your hopes high . Plus still if you dint like than theres no point working under pressure then leaving the job would be the most suitable decision for you.
    God says if we will keep our trust in him he will always make a way even when it looks like there is no way . Just remember this
    You can also read

    Work Life Balance


    Mishika 🙂

    #120045

    Mishika
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    HI Lexy
    Then you shouldn’t be worrying around because you have to work till January so there shouldn’t be any doubt but yes you must start looking for a job as you do not wish to continue if you do not like your new manager . SO you shouldn’t just predict before that your new manager will not be good .
    I am sure you are feeling this because you were so comfortable with your previous manager that thinking about the new manager is scaring you. But let this new manager take over you never know you might just like him /her more.
    Plus until january you have to work no matter what . Till January you’ll also come to know about your new manager so you can easily take the decision of staying with this job or leaving this job.

    Mishika 🙂

    #120043

    Mishika
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    Hi Jessica
    First of all you need to stop blaming yourself and thinking things like, does he miss me too? Will he miss me? Will he regret losing me, like I regret losing him? How soon will he find another girlfriend? When will I find someone new? And to stop this spend a lot of time outside. It’s a cliché, but fresh air really does clear your head. So does, you know, seeing the sun every once in a while. Take at least two hours from each day just to leave your Cave of Forgotten Dreams and interact with The Outside.

    And as you asked When will you find someone new so even if you start dating someone else, take it really slow because You just ended a relationship and your heart flipped over. If you take it step by step and enjoy it as a casual thing for a while, that’ll give you some time to evaluate whether you’re actually ready to be with someone again.

    Get some solid book recs, join a pickup sports game, go on a trip somewhere with a girlfriend. Paint your bathroom; I don’t care whatever you like Just do something for yourself and scheme to get yourself back .

    You must read this darling how spending time alone with yourself turns out to be a gift ?

    Feeling lonely

    Hope this helps mishika 🙂

    • This reply was modified 10 months, 2 weeks ago by  Mishika.
    #120039

    Mishika
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    Hi lexy99
    Nobody could force you to do something that you really don’t wish to do . You must do something you are passionate about not something you are forced to do unwillingly.
    Follow your heart !!
    PERIOD

    Follow Your Heart

    mishika

    #120036

    Mishika
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    Hi kp1193
    After reading your post all I can say is that
    I truly believe that when it doesn’t work out with someone in the present, it is because it is meant to work out with someone else in the future. But what I wanted to explain you is that you can’t leave it all up to fate. There’s work to be done on your part too. Each relationship that comes in your life is the universe’s way of delivering a lesson for you to learn. If you don’t learn that lesson and evolve, you will only face the same issues with each relationship moving forward. If you want to avoid a lifetime of dating the wrong men,as you mentioned you have already dated and are even scared of dating another wrong men. So before dating anyone or even if you guys start living in together BEFORE THAT You have to be conscious of the old wounds you need to heal and take action to stop destructive habits and patterns. After all, you have to be the “right one” until you will meet the “right one”.

    And You can also read this as this might just help you to avoid situations which cause relationships to break.

    Why our MODERN RELATIONSHIPS falling apart?

    Hope this help
    Mishika 🙂

    • This reply was modified 10 months, 2 weeks ago by  Mishika.
    #119916

    Mishika
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    Hi Isabelle,

    Hope you are feeling much better now and also little excited to meet new people and make new friends 😉
    Mishika

    #119898

    Mishika
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    And yes Gerry
    This might also just help you

    How to have a loving relationship?

    Mishika 🙂

    #119897

    Mishika
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    Hi Gerry,
    I can understand that we all need personal relationships if we want to function beautifully in life’s ups and downs.
    But I would suggest you to make friends first in university or anywhere . But just make friends. Because if you are looking for a long term relationship because the best relationships start off as a friendship first. Relationships are always stronger when you are a set friend first and a couple second.
    So my suggestion as you are going to many places like you mentioned at uni, language classes etc etc you can easily find a girl with whom you can be friends with. Be her good friend, show her that she can trust you, show her that you are loyal, and you both will fall for each other.

    Hope this help 🙂
    Love and Light
    Mishika 🙂

    #119895

    Mishika
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    Hi Isabelle
    The only thing that is constant is CHANGE
    You were looking for a job for 10 months now. I am sure one day or the other you had to do it.
    And I also understand that spending all this time with family and having all the time for yourself was amazing.
    I myself have experienced this when I changed the job and had to join again after 6 months. But just go with the positive attitude of making new friends and enjoying your work that I m sure you will enjoy like I enjoyed going after 6 months.
    With such a loving and supporting husband I am sure he will also motivate you .
    And don’t get stressed thinking about the daily routine before getting into it . Once you’l join all the anxiousness will go automatically . ( telling you my experience )
    And be in gratitude

    With Gratitude

    Love and Light
    Mishika

    #119846

    Mishika
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    HI katherine,
    After reading to your post, I have made a conclusion that all you are scared of is being alone and nothing else. You are already an independent woman .
    Then first you need to take this ‘fear of being alone’ out of your mind and then take any decisions in life as I have previously posted that feeling alone might make us take wrong decisions in life .
    And i am sure that your boyfriend also knows this thing of your fear of being alone. So you are just letting him know about your insecurities and fear. My advice would BE BOLD. Just once Be bold .when you will be bold enough hell notice it himself. Take this fear out of your mind. Make new friends , lot of friends, take time out for your hobby which I m sure must be many and love your work so much that you feel happy while working and do not feel alone.

    Mishika

    • This reply was modified 10 months, 2 weeks ago by  Mishika.
    #119835

    Mishika
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    HI Katherine
    First of all I would like to tell you that you really need to be independent and not be dependent on anyone for anything be it for financial support or emotional support.
    For financial problems you are a young girl of age only 20 so i would recommend you right now to just focus on your career because the day you’l show your boyfriend or anyone in future (if you guys break up ) that you are an independent woman who just need his love and affection and support and not his money then the other person will just only love you and he would spend on you automatically but my point is crave for his love not for anyones money because if’l you love the other person rest will follow money, sex , home anything you desire for but first you need to love
    Often when people start feeling lonely people make mistakes of filling the void with unnecessary relationships. Be it friendship or romantic not realising that sooner or later those relationships will come to a standstill and you’ll be back to square one that is Being Alone which I think has happened to you because you moved from your ex to present and when your present relationship has come to standstill you started missing your ex
    So my advice to you give yourself some alone time and think about ur relationship that do you really love the person or you just dint want to feel alone.
    And also focus on your career rest everything will follow. Respect yourself , think what you really want from life. and yes just focus on your career right now. Be an independent woman .

    You must even read this, it will help you :

    Feeling lonely

    • This reply was modified 10 months, 2 weeks ago by  Mishika.
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