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  • April 4, 2015 at 2:40 pm #74878
    juliana
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    Hi im juliana,
    I need some help about How to act in my situation ….i met a boy and we begin to see each other for one month now the first week and the second we Were very in love ,but then i became distant and cold because he was quite and Never told me about what he think about our relationship but when i became distant n dont reply him instantly he does the same …but the problem is that i was taking my Time to make him miss me .he was always question himself why choosing him? Why him? Maybe i wanted something else ? And so on ..because he claim. That im beautiful and i could get all boy i wanted to!! i was not searching for fight …he was always nervous around me Maybe i told him to be somebody he Isnt …but i know he was in love with me i cant dénies it i feel him i see in his eyes ,but he get sick and tired of me not being too careful 🙁 but the 3 weeks left it get worst and i feel i make him go and seek to someone to love him like he déserve to …then one night he told me he met a girl and he wanted to know her well and wanted to take Time to know her and we couldnt get together and he say he was sorry i was thinking he was joking but he wasnt….i told myself that i was the reason of this thing happening to me …but now that he long gone i réalise that i réally love him all my mémoires get back then…i want him back but i know he will not bother Maybe to answer me back ….i just mess up so much ..but i know my limits and i feel deep down that i want him and need to fight for that love …but Maybe i Wrong …Maybe i should let him go …i need some advice please someone help me …im so lost and confused 🙁

    April 4, 2015 at 3:48 pm #74880
    hypnotize518
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    I think that your ex was searching for excuses to not be committed to you. Men who do not want to be with one person act like that. Do not think that it is your “fault.” If a guy is really into you he will be with you regardless you text him back in 1 minute or 1 hour. You wanted him to chase as most women do. In my opinion even if you texted him immediately, told him you loved him he would have made some other excuse.

    April 4, 2015 at 10:08 pm #74898
    juliana
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    Oh i see clear right now thank you very much…. 😉 i was so confused seriously ^^

    April 7, 2015 at 4:33 am #74998
    Will
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    Yeah, I’m sorry but it just doesn’t sound like he really wanted to be with you.

    I think withdrawing to try to make him miss you is maybe not the best way to act. If something like that happens to you again, just open up to him: “Hey, it feels like you’re not getting in touch at all. I’d like to hear from you more often. Do you think we could talk at least once a day or something like that?” There’s no rules on how often people have to get in touch. But if you feel like he’s withdrawing, it’s worth having a conversation about that.

    But again, probably not with this boy. Work on letting him go, and don’t blame yourself. Just go find someone who does really want to be with you.

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