I was texting my fiancé last night and he kept disappearing as in going off line , I decided to go because I was getting tired and I am a grumpy so and so when I am tired. I did get the impression that he didn’t want to talk to me at the time .Well a friend texted me and asked for some advice so we chatted,I was curious so I noticed my fiancé was on line for a whole hour after we said goodnight. I asked him if he was talking to someone whilst talking/texting me , he told me I wasn’t a detective . I said I’m not playing detective I just asked a question . I asked him if he was a criminal and he said no why question him like that , I said I asked a question and you didn’t answer he said …why would I? and then asked me whats the point. I said I was just asking if you were talking to someone at the same time and he said what if I was. what’s the bloody point. he was like way to go with the trust, you come at me like I have something to answer for . I said now you are acting like you do . At that point he said goodnight.
Now I’m not sure how to approach this as I was cheated on in the past and feel a bit sensitive ?? I do trust my partner but him answering the way he did has left me with this sinking feeling like he’s trying to hide something from me . Oh, he’s really big on honesty but he’s not averse to deliberately leaving stuff out.
What do you think? what would you do ?
Thank you all in advance for your time and comments. x