Hi everyone

I hope that you can give some of advice or word of encourangement.

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We had a ‘cooling’ period for about 2 months in between because he couldnt tell me why we cant live together. I felt that it was the right thing to do.

When we were apart, I felt that the need of moving in together subside and that the most important thing is that we together and have a quality time together. I said to my self that I need to focusing on the now instead of what’s going to happen in the future.

Since we get back together he seems reluctant to put me back in to his life, as in he doesnt introduce me with his friends and not taking me to his parents anymore. This hurts me alot. I told him about this and cut long story short, I said to him that he needs to sort this out otherwise we cant be together

I told him that being ‘shoved’ away from his life hurts and I want to be involve more. Granted he is a private person, but I do think he’s taking this far.

I really love him and he loves me very much too. He’s always there for me and very generous. I felt bad because maybe I was overlooking all of the good things that he does for me. But somehow, my heart say ‘No, I’m not!’

He’s not giving me what I need. It’s like when you said to someone I’m thirsty and what they give you is anything else but water.

I dont want to lose him but I’m hurting. We’re going to talk again tonight and I hope you can help me.

I feel lost…