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  • #410947
    anonymous
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    @anita,

    hi anita! it’s been so long, i hope you’re doing well! i’ve been feeling much better and no longer suffer from constant guilt and anxiety. my relationship is also doing great, i’m very happy!

    some days i think about it sometimes and feel a small residual guilt but i’m learning how to cope with those rare moments. i’ve not spoken to my ex since and he’s blocked on everything forever. i’ve also limited my drink intake, especially around other men.

    it’s hard to completely let go of the incident and like i said, i think about it from time to time. i think soon it’ll be completely past though. it helps when i think that if the roles were reversed, i would forgive my partner.

    how are you? i’m afraid i don’t know your mistake or wrongdoing but my promise still stands and you can confess it to me. i’m here to listen like you were there for me.

    thank you!

    #410954
    anonymous
    Participant

    hi anita,

    it’s good to hear from you again! i’m doing and feeling much better. i no longer feel the constant guilt and anxiety. my relationship is also doing very well so overall i’m very happy! i have not spoken to my ex since the incident and he continues to be blocked on all platforms. i have no need or wish to speak to him. i’ve also limited my alcohol consumption and stopped drinking around other men without my partner present. these boundaries have helped keep myself in check and move on.

    during some rare moments, i find myself thinking of the ache from time to time. it helps when i tell myself that if the roles were reversed, i would forgive my partner. it’s still a bit of a sore spot when i think of it but i think that this will pass over time. the further i get away from the incident, the better i feel.

    how are you doing and how have you been? i’m afraid i don’t know what mistake or wrongdoing you are referring to but my original promise still stands. because you heard me when i needed someone and forgave me, you can confess your mistake to me. i’m here to listen and help in any way i can!

    #410957
    anonymous
    Participant

    i wrote two posts because my original didn’t post haha, feel free to condense them!

    #410963
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear anonymous:

    Good to read from you again! I am fine, thank you, still taking my daily walks and today it may  be in the falling snow (it is forecasted to snow anytime). Unfortunately (or fortunately, for me), I forgot what I was thinking about when I offered to confess a wrongdoing to you more than 2 months ago, in my last post. I am not motivated to go digging for it because admitting my wrongdoings is not my favorite thing to do (this is why I am trying to do no wrong, so that I don’t have to admit doing wrong).

    Good to read that you applied what you learned from the experiences we discussed (blocking your ex on everything forever and limiting your drink intake, especially around other men), that you are very happy in your relationship and that you no longer feel constant guilt. If it helps to not be reminded of it, you can start a new thread, new title, new topic…?

    anita

     

     

    #411433
    Anonymous
    Guest

    How are you, anonymous?

    anita

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