My long distance lover and I have been texting back and forth for 5 yrs since the last time we had sex. We text often like almost everyday if not maybe a week go by but it is steady . Prior to the last time we had sex we used to mess around in 1991. He doesn’t live in the area anymore he lives 7 hours south of me.

This weekend he came up for a family occasion and he must forgotten he told me he was coming up a while ago. Anyway I was waiting for him to call. He calls me last night , which is night before he would be leaving. He asked what was I doing. When he knew I was home he said I am coming over. He wanted to see me. He was playing games because when I said when he said soon. So I said how soon? He never replied back. Then like  20 mins later he replied with  3 smiling kissing emojis and that was that. He made no effort to see me. I don’t get why he even called me.