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  • June 18, 2018 at 6:05 am #212883
    tidalwave
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    Dear Anita

    I accidentally reported one of my posts.  I wanted to refer to it, but clicked on the wrong button .
    It is called Virtual communication anxiety . I am talking about that anxiety problem there.

     

    June 18, 2018 at 6:33 am #212889
    Anonymous
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    Dear tidalwave:

    Is that post a recent post, the one you accidently reported and it has been deleted?

    anita

    June 18, 2018 at 10:48 am #212929
    tidalwave
    Participant

    No, its also from last year.

    June 18, 2018 at 11:26 am #212943
    tidalwave
    Participant

    But what would you advice me, as someone, who had problems like this?

    Sometimes I just don’t want to raise my voice, because I hate, when people always thinks, how important their opinion is. But at the other side, I understand , that it is actually important to say whats on your mind. Because that will show who you are.

    June 19, 2018 at 4:06 am #213019
    Anonymous
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    Dear tidalwave:

    You accidently reporting your own post of a year ago, on another website, as I understand it. You are communicating about the same topic as here on another thread, another website?

    If so, what did you learn from that communication that is a year long, and if you are still anxious about reporting your post by mistake, what is the actual danger in you having reported it?

    anita

    July 14, 2018 at 9:38 am #216659
    tidalwave
    Participant

    Hi Anita,

    So I decided to not write him anything. But week ago he wrote me. And he asked me where am I at the moment. If I am back home or outside the country. So I wrote him that about my plans about coming home for summer. And he said to me that he is eventually right now in my hometown, where he doesn’t live. And he didn’t clearly reply why he is there. He just said “ some my business “ . After that I wrote him that we could eventually meet. But he didn’t reply. So this is weird. And I don’t understand why would he even write me. But I’m glad I could ask him how he is doing, though he answered with one sentence.

     

    July 15, 2018 at 3:53 am #216719
    Anonymous
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    Dear tidalwave:

    He was present in your hometown and asked you where you were. Reads like he was thinking of meeting you in person, if you were there, in your hometown. Once you communicated to him that you were not, he was not interested in further communication. So I guess things are the way they were before, no communication.

    “Winter came and went, but the love didn’t”, is the title of your thread. Summer is here, and the love still isn’t. What now?

    anita

    July 15, 2018 at 11:59 am #216783
    tidalwave
    Participant

    dear Anita

    he is still in my hometown , I am in my hometown too. But I am not writing him anything, because he seems like he doesn’t really want to meet.

    i think this way because he didn’t reply to my last message, that “maybe we could eventually meet. And I have a feeling, that maybe he asked this because he doesn’t want to bump into me or my parents accidentally.

    I am kinda confused what to do. I believe it would be better to meet and to clarify things. But if he is not interested in that…

    Summer came and the feelings are fading away. Slowly… I don’t have that much patience anymore.

     

    W

    • This reply was modified 6 years, 5 months ago by tidalwave.
    July 16, 2018 at 5:42 am #216839
    Anonymous
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    Dear tidalwave:

    In the post before last you wrote: “he asked me where am I at the moment. If I am back home or outside the country. So I wrote him that about my plans about coming home for summer”-

    When you wrote that you told him “about coming home for summer”, you mean that you told him that you were already home (in your hometown) this summer, presently, or that you planned to be at home later in the summer?

    You wrote that your “feelings are fading away”, that is a good thing, isn’t it?

    anita

     

    July 16, 2018 at 1:27 pm #217099
    tidalwave
    Participant

    Dear Anita

    i wrote him that I’m planning to come in summer, but wasn’t there yet. I didn’t tell him when I’ll come , but I wrote him when I’m planning to go back…

    he doesn’t know exactly that I’m now here, but he could think of that . Cause I wrote him that I aoll go back in the end of the month…

    I don’t know if that’s good or not. I just feel like we didn’t put a point in this relationship and that’s eating me up.

    July 17, 2018 at 6:31 am #217215
    Anonymous
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    Dear tidalwave:

    Can you specify as simply and as clearly as you can what it is that is eating you up?

    anita

    July 17, 2018 at 11:12 am #217301
    tidalwave
    Participant

    Dear Anita

    I feel sorry for his situation. And that’s eating me up that i can’t just ask him how he is doing, talk to him, make him feel better. It shouldn’t end like this. We didn’t say goodbye on a good note. I miss him.

    July 17, 2018 at 1:28 pm #217331
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear tidalwave:

    June 5 you wrote: “I can tell a 100 percent what other person thinks and how he feels”- do you still feel this way, that you can tell 100% what this man thinks and feels, still?

    You wrote today that it is eating you up that you can’t talk to him and “make him feel better”. Maybe you think he is in pain but in reality he is feeling fine, and he doesn’t need you then, to make him feel better. Let me know what you think about this possibility.

    anita

    July 18, 2018 at 10:14 am #217485
    tidalwave
    Participant

    Dear Anita

    I actually lisp spelled this sentence and corrected myself afterwards – I can’t tell…

    i guess I just can’t believe this ended so fast and stupid. Though it was me who ended it I hate it that I can’t eat over it so fast… i just can’t stand the feeling that he might got over it all very fast and doesn’t think about me at all… i feel stupid…

    July 18, 2018 at 10:16 am #217487
    tidalwave
    Participant

    Dear Anita

    In that post I misspelled myself and corrected afterwards – I can’t tell…

    i guess I just can’t accept the fact that I am not still over him after a year and he might moved on  a long time ago. I feel stupid.

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