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Posts by Lavinia

Hailing from a family of engineers, Lavinia combines her artistic sense with scientific analysis to see the colors behind the numbers and the numbers behind the colors. She specializes in marketing and publicity and loves writing about human nature and challenges. Lavinia speaks fluent English, Romanian, French, and dabbles in Chinese Mandarin and Spanish. Find her at JustLav (http://www.justlav.com).

How to Get Your Joy and Vitality Back When You’ve Been Depressed

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“When everything seem to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.” ~Henry Ford

We all have this image of how depression looks. It’s a person looking all sullen and grim. Rain is usually involved. It’s dark. It’s cloudy. It’s depressing.

But what about the sunny depression, the one that almost never shows its face in public, the one that looks just… normal.

I’m a naturally happy person. I wake up smiling. I go to bed smiling. I even smile in my sleep, or so I’ve been told. Yet I’ve been depressed, …

Making Love Last, Even When It’s Long-Distance

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“Love as much as you can from wherever you are.” ~Thaddeus Golas

At the time I’m writing this article, I have been in a relationship for 1,369 days out of which 716 have been long-distance.

Yes, I keep track of the days, not just the months or the years, because I live every day, not every month.

I will not pretend the long-distance part has been an easy journey; and anyone who has dabbled even for a little bit in the idea of long-distance relationships can tell you that it takes a lot of love, but more importantly it takes …