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    em
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    Hi, it seems like im gonna answer this question myself, but a lot of the time i wonder whether me and my boyfreind are right for each other. the problem is when things are good between us they are so good, however when they are bad theyre really bad and recently it only takes small issues to create a massive argument. I know if one of my freinds came to me with this problem id be worried about them and tell them to break up, but why cant i bring myself to do it? it seems like a waste to me because i love him so much and i know he loves me, just sometimes he shows it in the wrong ways. but theres been so many incidents which alone are worthy of a breakup. i know i could justify it if i wanted to, but i feel like im just waiting for the next fight so theres a reason, i know thats messed up but i know there will be another one and each one is worse than the last. he does many things that i dont like, for example he likes us to spend a lot of time together and doesnt like it if i want time apart, if we fight and i say i need space hes repeatedly followed me and knocked on my door until i let him in. hes also done things like taken my phone/glasses and said i cant have them back until i talk to him. i know i shouldnt be with someone who makes me feel this way but theres also a million things i love about him and most of the time he makes me feel like the luckiest girl in the world. i dont know what to do anymore all my freinds are his i dont have anyone i feel like i can talk to properly. i feel lost.

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    anita
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    Hi em 🙂

    Welcome to the forums✨ I hope that clarity and comfort will soon replace the feeling lost!

    As I read your post, I was waiting to read about what the guy you love so much and who loves you back (“I love him so much and I know he loves me”) has done, for you to think that you should break up with him (“I know if one of my friends came to me with this problem id be worried about them and tell them to break up”).

    I was expecting to read about those “massive arguments” and the “so many incidents which alone are worthy of a breakup”.

    Here’s what you shared: “If we fight and I say I need space he’s repeatedly followed me and knocked on my door until I let him in. He’s also done things like taken my phone/glasses and said I can’t have them back until I talk to him.”-

    I would like to understand- first you fight, then you say you need space. What is the initial fight about (before you need space)?

    And when he knocks on your door and takes your phone or glasses, does he do it in anger, or does he do it in a clingy kind of joking way?

    🤔 Anita

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